← All guides
Relationships · 5 min

Dating that goes somewhere

Reading interest, surviving "the talk", and spotting a serial cheater before year four.

Interest is real

  • People with no spark turn dates down, have flatter dates, and after two dates tell you ("the talk"). Keen people mean it.
  • There are 220 date scenes, voiced by the other person's interest and personality.
  • Someone you're actively dating is rarely snapped up by someone else now, and tells you if they move on.

Deeds and chat

  • The relationship grid is deeds only: give something you own, take them somewhere in Wanderer, ask a favour, or start a fight. Talking, flirting and breaking up happen in chat.

When it goes wrong

  • Affairs can be talked through, and trust rebuilds over years.
  • Exes stay in your life, and orientation is part of who people are.

Living together

  • Move in with a partner or a roommate and split the rent.

Types to watch for

  • Serial cheater: cheats on you and on others; discovery is far more likely than with an ordinary partner, and the clues are concrete.
  • Ride-or-die: doesn't drift when you go quiet, forgives more, and sends money when you're in trouble.
  • Gold digger: affection tracks your balance, and they walk out over a prenup.